Comments on: 7 Step Formula To Get More Dates (“Throw Game” or “Hunt”), Gain Influence, and Make a Great First Impression http://www.cynthialou.com/2009/06/7-step-formula-to-get-more-dates-throw-game-or-hunt-gain-influence-and-make-a-great-first-impression/ Sun, 29 Aug 2010 00:34:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Jay http://www.cynthialou.com/2009/06/7-step-formula-to-get-more-dates-throw-game-or-hunt-gain-influence-and-make-a-great-first-impression/comment-page-1/#comment-374 Jay Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:26:32 +0000 http://www.cynthialou.com/?p=404#comment-374 Stunning! In twenty minutes you introduced vital ideas with high credibility. Thanks for your perspective - it's superior quality! Stunning! In twenty minutes you introduced vital ideas with high credibility. Thanks for your perspective – it’s superior quality!

]]> By: Dennis http://www.cynthialou.com/2009/06/7-step-formula-to-get-more-dates-throw-game-or-hunt-gain-influence-and-make-a-great-first-impression/comment-page-1/#comment-371 Dennis Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:45:04 +0000 http://www.cynthialou.com/?p=404#comment-371 Thanks for the advice Cynthia You have a few good points but over all. Sounds like motherly advice and we all know how much that works. The 5 love languages will only work if you're in a relationship. Going to the bar with that crap in your head, will leave you with an empty wallet and a bruised ego. Thanks for the advice Cynthia

You have a few good points but over all.
Sounds like motherly advice and we all know how much that works.
The 5 love languages will only work if you’re in a relationship. Going to the bar with that crap in your head, will leave you with an empty wallet and a bruised ego.

]]> By: Pax North http://www.cynthialou.com/2009/06/7-step-formula-to-get-more-dates-throw-game-or-hunt-gain-influence-and-make-a-great-first-impression/comment-page-1/#comment-322 Pax North Sat, 22 Aug 2009 03:19:40 +0000 http://www.cynthialou.com/?p=404#comment-322 I would add also that what I've found is that it is important to be equinamitous. Not indifferent or apathetic, but to be open to outcomes as opposed to being obsessively focused on what you think you want, and then feeling discouraged or like some kind of loser if person X or client Y doesn't respond in some way you had hoped for. It is not bad to have preferences in terms of outcomes for an encounter, but that outcome is less likely to happen if one too obsessively desires a thing. It also leads to seeing the other person in question as a means to an end; an object, as opposed to a complex other whose decision making you respect. If one truly respects another, their viewpoint, and their decisions, it allows one to more easily express what one would like, and unashamedly so, either in terms of business or romantic encounters, as the other will not feel that subtle pressure (which we all hate) to say yes, when they want to say no. Which makes saying yes all the easier. I would add also that what I’ve found is that it is important to be equinamitous. Not indifferent or apathetic, but to be open to outcomes as opposed to being obsessively focused on what you think you want, and then feeling discouraged or like some kind of loser if person X or client Y doesn’t respond in some way you had hoped for. It is not bad to have preferences in terms of outcomes for an encounter, but that outcome is less likely to happen if one too obsessively desires a thing. It also leads to seeing the other person in question as a means to an end; an object, as opposed to a complex other whose decision making you respect. If one truly respects another, their viewpoint, and their decisions, it allows one to more easily express what one would like, and unashamedly so, either in terms of business or romantic encounters, as the other will not feel that subtle pressure (which we all hate) to say yes, when they want to say no. Which makes saying yes all the easier.

]]> By: Jon Gauthier http://www.cynthialou.com/2009/06/7-step-formula-to-get-more-dates-throw-game-or-hunt-gain-influence-and-make-a-great-first-impression/comment-page-1/#comment-286 Jon Gauthier Wed, 10 Jun 2009 02:24:01 +0000 http://www.cynthialou.com/?p=404#comment-286 Hey Cynthia Awesome video as always. Some great tips and strategies for using next time I am out hanging with friends or in front of a client. You rock as always Talk soon Jon Hey Cynthia

Awesome video as always. Some great tips and strategies for using next time I am out hanging with friends or in front of a client. You rock as always

Talk soon
Jon

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