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7 Step Formula To Get More Dates (”Throw Game” or “Hunt”), Gain Influence, and Make a Great First Impression

Cynthia Lou 7 June 2009 Featured, Video 4 Comments

Are you tired of watching your friends have more fun in bars than you?
Do you finally want women to see how awesome you are?
Are you ready to make a great first impression, and get to know that cute girl you’ve been eyeing?

Or, are you an entrepreneur seeking to make a first great impression, make that solid connection at a networking event that will open your business to new levels of success, and get to do more of what you love?

Well it’s the same skillset: how you do one thing is often how you do everything.

Watch this video to learn:
- Why what you say right off the bat can be the decisive factor in your success, and how to say the right thing
- What is really going on in the other person’s mind – and how you can use this to better your end result
- How to make that great first impression, and show the other person who you really are, your best self, right off the bat.
- The proper Mindset to take when approaching anyone: an attractive woman, a prospective client, a potential business partner

4 Comments »

  1. Hey Cynthia

    Awesome video as always. Some great tips and strategies for using next time I am out hanging with friends or in front of a client. You rock as always

    Talk soon
    Jon

    //Jon Gauthier
    9 June 2009 at 6:24 pm

  2. I would add also that what I’ve found is that it is important to be equinamitous. Not indifferent or apathetic, but to be open to outcomes as opposed to being obsessively focused on what you think you want, and then feeling discouraged or like some kind of loser if person X or client Y doesn’t respond in some way you had hoped for. It is not bad to have preferences in terms of outcomes for an encounter, but that outcome is less likely to happen if one too obsessively desires a thing. It also leads to seeing the other person in question as a means to an end; an object, as opposed to a complex other whose decision making you respect. If one truly respects another, their viewpoint, and their decisions, it allows one to more easily express what one would like, and unashamedly so, either in terms of business or romantic encounters, as the other will not feel that subtle pressure (which we all hate) to say yes, when they want to say no. Which makes saying yes all the easier.

    //Pax North
    21 August 2009 at 7:19 pm

  3. Thanks for the advice Cynthia

    You have a few good points but over all.
    Sounds like motherly advice and we all know how much that works.
    The 5 love languages will only work if you’re in a relationship. Going to the bar with that crap in your head, will leave you with an empty wallet and a bruised ego.

    //Dennis
    26 January 2010 at 3:45 pm

  4. Stunning! In twenty minutes you introduced vital ideas with high credibility. Thanks for your perspective - it’s superior quality!

    //Jay
    23 February 2010 at 6:26 pm

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